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post Nov 24 2009, 02:21 PM
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When you make fun of someone with a mental disorder

I suffer from ADHD and aspergers.


For the past 2 weeks ive had a friend stay at mine cause he got kicked out of home
this is what i do for people i help people and this is what i get.

In The Past 2 Months ive nearly comitted suicide i was at the edge of the cliff ready to jump put one of my closest friend grabbed me before i could jump. till this day i wish i did jump cause i bet if i did die know one on respawn would care no would care if i died.

In this last year i have struggled with my education due 2 my learning disabilitys. i also struggly to soliaze.

everyday passes and everyday i just wanna end my life and for you people to make a post like this.
just makes me wanna get in my car and drive off the cliff.
All you do is care about yaselves but you don't know what you are doing to others.

For the past 2 years ive had 2 deal with my mum having cancer so everyday i watch as my mum slowly gets better hoping that one day she will be cured

in the past 6 months i lost a very close Auntie to cancer i sat and watched her 2 boys cry
i was close in losing my mum due 2 a blood clot

My life is like a roller coaster and it never stops

atm the one thing that keeps me happy is my gf laura
she knows what to do when im down she brings me back up

My friends have been with me through alot of tuff times
My family 2 but my family is slowly spliting apart one another hating each other

My hero in life would be my dad he has done so much atm he has torn a muscle in his leg and he still works no matter what to support are family

Now what are you thoughts on my life


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Spitefultongue
post Nov 24 2009, 02:51 PM
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Giarus,
Everyone i know has issues but it isn't an excuse for their behavior. As far as suicide goes i too have been there many, many times before and i cut myself. People on the Respawn forums have made fun of me for that as well. You need to deal with your illness and not hide behind it for the rest of your life.
Suicide is the most selfish thing a person can do, it is proof that you are clearly not a good person for wanting to leave your loving girlfriend and sick mother alone.
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post Nov 24 2009, 03:04 PM
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QUOTE (Spitefultongue @ Nov 24 2009, 03:51 PM) *
Everyone i know has issues but it isn't an excuse for their behavior.


I don't want to provoke an argument but I have to respectfully disagree with this. You may be able to hold your breath for a long time if you try hard, but that doesn't mean you can hold your breath forever, no matter how strong your willpower is. We cannot control our neurology, and while we can cover our problems up by going against it, it is usually not possible to live a "normal" life while doing so.

A severely depressed person is no more responsible for their actions than a neurologically blind person is for not being able to see or a schizophrenic-catatonic person is for not moving. The only difference is that depression can be helped by the environment they're put in. "Free will" is a religious concept and is completely at odds with modern neurology.


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post Nov 24 2009, 03:06 PM
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QUOTE (wolfmother @ Nov 24 2009, 04:04 PM) *
QUOTE (Spitefultongue @ Nov 24 2009, 03:51 PM) *
Everyone i know has issues but it isn't an excuse for their behavior.


I don't want to provoke an argument but I have to respectfully disagree with this. You may be able to hold your breath for a long time if you try hard, but that doesn't mean you can hold your breath forever, no matter how strong your willpower is. We cannot control our neurology, and while we can cover our problems up by going against it, it is usually not possible to live a "normal" life while doing so.

A severely depressed person is no more responsible for their actions than a neurologically blind person is for not being able to see or a schizophrenic-catatonic person is for not moving. The only difference is that depression can be helped by the environment they're put in. "Free will" is a religious concept and is completely at odds with modern neurology.

Sorry but can u explain that in languade i could understand its to complex for me to understand


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post Nov 24 2009, 03:12 PM
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QUOTE (GIARUS @ Nov 24 2009, 04:06 PM) *
QUOTE (wolfmother @ Nov 24 2009, 04:04 PM) *
QUOTE (Spitefultongue @ Nov 24 2009, 03:51 PM) *
Everyone i know has issues but it isn't an excuse for their behavior.


I don't want to provoke an argument but I have to respectfully disagree with this. You may be able to hold your breath for a long time if you try hard, but that doesn't mean you can hold your breath forever, no matter how strong your willpower is. We cannot control our neurology, and while we can cover our problems up by going against it, it is usually not possible to live a "normal" life while doing so.

A severely depressed person is no more responsible for their actions than a neurologically blind person is for not being able to see or a schizophrenic-catatonic person is for not moving. The only difference is that depression can be helped by the environment they're put in. "Free will" is a religious concept and is completely at odds with modern neurology.

Sorry but can u explain that in languade i could understand its to complex for me to understand


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Katie said that it doesn't matter which brain disorders you have, everything you do is still your own responsibility.

My point is that there are some people who can't even move because of the problems with their brains, and I don't think that's their fault at all. Just because your problems aren't THAT bad doesn't mean that everyone should blame you for what you do. Your brain is a certain way and you have no control over how that affects you.


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- GIARUS   GIARUS Open Up   Nov 24 2009, 02:21 PM
- - Jeffy   I'm going to be the first to say this, everyon...   Nov 24 2009, 02:25 PM
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- - GIARUS   Ive had same as u jeffy except i was bullied since...   Nov 24 2009, 02:38 PM
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- - wolfmother   I actually have bipolar disorder as well as Asperg...   Nov 24 2009, 02:49 PM
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- - Sharks   ------ sorry admins, delete, etc.   Nov 24 2009, 03:10 PM
- - Sharks   Hey Gia, You could have talked to me sunday morni...   Nov 24 2009, 03:11 PM
- - Spitefultongue   Perhaps i didn't make myself clear, i believe ...   Nov 24 2009, 03:13 PM
|- - wolfmother   QUOTE (Spitefultongue @ Nov 24 2009, 04:1...   Nov 24 2009, 03:15 PM
- - TechL   I know pretty much everything in the OP, being a f...   Nov 24 2009, 04:06 PM
|- - GIARUS   QUOTE (TechL @ Nov 24 2009, 05:06 PM) I k...   Nov 25 2009, 11:18 AM
- - Andrewzor   My mum had a brain tumor around 10 years ago when ...   Nov 26 2009, 05:46 PM
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